Socalballer wrote:Stringing along comes into the picture when some of these coaches take your money, and are not honest about your daughters potential...(taking your money knowingly she is not an infielder etc)..Howard is not one of these....Not to say anything about these other guy's, My kids have never been to them. I'm Sure there are good also...No I would not take a 6yr old to him definetly not....Remeber just my opinion....
Knowing she's not going to be an infielder where? Firecracker's Gold? Her local middle school team? They must have a lot of specific knowledge about each girl's situation and aspirations to make that determination.
I get that it's hard to conduct group lessons at an elite level if some percentage of your students aren't up to snuff, but that's an issue with what the instructor is trying to do, not what an individual kid is trying to do. There are plenty of polite ways they can inform a kid's parents that she isn't ready for what they offer yet.
In fact the
only reason to be hard on a kid is if 1) she
does have improvement potential, 2) you
are going to continue instructing her,
and 3) being hard on her is reasonably calculated to lead to said improvement. Why would anyone give the business to a girl who they are sending down the road anyway?
(btw, other than owning the dvd's, I have no experience with either of them. Just going by what's been said on here.)