CoachKev.
This is just my opinion, but I think when all your energy and focus is on the umps, it takes that energy and focus away from your team's game.
And if your girls pick up on that, it takes their focus and energy away from their game also.
Pretty soon everyone is so upset at the ump, they forget there is a game going on...
If I have an ump that is giving us off the outside of the plate, and I have a pitcher that can hit that spot, well, yeah, we're going to live out there.
And my catcher is going to tell my pitcher that same info after the first couple batters.
I saw one team yesterday in one of the late games where about half of the parents were standing directly behind the backstop yelling, pirouetting, screaming at the ump on EVERY SINGLE PITCH...they were so focused on what they thought was horrible pitch calling by the ump that the game quietly slipped away from them, and suddenly, game over, and they were on the losing end of a one run game. Don't they think the ump can hear everything? Don't they realize the ump is human and subconsciously will start calling everything against them because he is now upset himself?
I was just thinking, maybe if they could control themselves, they could let their girls focus on trying to push one more run across, but as it was, they could only concentrate on what they felt was a horrible ump "screwing them over"...
Another thing, if an ump is making bad calls going both ways, and one team (coaches, players, families, etc) is giving the ump a hard time, the calls sometimes start becoming one sided against the vocal group.
Ok, I was there with no horse in the race, and yes, it's easy to stay calm in that mind set. But if you can learn to do it when you are in a game, it's just better for your team in the long run.
And what about when you have this ump again down the line?
Think an ump just wipes out his memory about a team that gives him a hard time?
Nope...




























