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by Hawk17 » Mon Feb 16, 2009 3:20 pm

Those of us who loved the Orioles back when they were a good team loved Earl Weaver. He had something a lot of professional ball players and managers don't have nowadays, passion!

Yeah, he could be dramatic, but if you were an O's fan you loved it!
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by umpinva » Mon Feb 16, 2009 3:23 pm

All 4 One wrote:Billy Martain also comes to mind.


Phillip Wellman of the MiLB Mississippi Braves also come to mind:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggy6WGUFaYs
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by GIMNEPIWO » Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:42 pm

umpinva wrote:
All 4 One wrote:Billy Martain also comes to mind.


Phillip Wellman of the MiLB Mississippi Braves also come to mind:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggy6WGUFaYs


LMAOWIOAB ! ... the Grenade is classic ...
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by HBDave » Mon Feb 16, 2009 4:54 pm

We can't forget Lou Pinella...well, we could try but I don't think he'll let us.
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by umpinva » Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:24 pm

Here's a "Drama" KING for you from NCAA Baseball:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26axJdDK ... =1&index=9

The announcers were great forecasting the results of Walker's actions.
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by umpinva » Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:39 pm

The Drama theme took me to my archives. Here's another "Drama King" from MiLB. Asheville Manager Joe Mikulik Meltdown:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4DPRuEJ ... re=related
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by Mick » Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:49 pm

How about Jim Mora?

"Playoffs? Don't talk about playoffs. Are you kidding me?..." :o
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by NuggDawg » Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:23 am

Fanof12 wrote:I've got 2 kids this year that are turning into real drama queens when it comes to injuries. . .
Any ideas that can help me?

Coach the players, not the drama. Don't give any attention to their drama. When they get no attention for their attention-getting device (drama), they'll drop it or look elsewhere for attention (quit the team).

You're a softball coach: a coach of players, not of drama students.

You'll feel much better if you can do this. And it takes mental and emotional discipline not to react to their ploys. Also, watch out for any clever moves on their part, like trying to draw in their teammates now that that they don't have "daddy's" or "mommy's" special attention. Keep everyone busy and focused on what they're getting out of playing and practicing the game.

Good luck.
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by jofus » Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:44 am

I use the line from the movie "The Program"

"Are you hurt, or are you injured?"

"Cause, if you're hurt, then you can still play. If you're injured, then I have to take you out of the game."



Or, occasionally, a line from one of my favorite movies (and favorite movies to quote lines from), "A League Of Their Own"

"Ballplayers.....I don't have ballplayers, I have girls"
Proud fastpitch, baseball, volleyball, soccer, basketball, etc. Dad :)
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by Fanof12 » Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:57 pm

Thanks to everyone who has contributed. I am going to have a sit down with the players involved and talk through the effects of their actions. They are good kids so I'm hoping this works. If not I'll try not making a big deal of it and let my team leaders handle the issue.

For those who brought up the "Drama Kings" I appreciate the prespective. I have indeed seen many of them on and off the field as well.
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