curveballerguy124 wrote:Back in the day when some of us played football there was this thing called the bullring, basically what it was is a player was put in the center of the ring and the coach would get the hardest hitters on the team to surround that player a few yards out and would toss a ball to one of those players and they would run at the guy in the center of the ring at full force... It was a form of punishment for any number of things, I remember a player being put in the ring for talking crap on his teammates!!!! Any suggestions?!?!?!
Women and men, girls and boys require different strategies when being coached ... An example would be that if you were unhappy with a guys performance, you could tell him that his play sucked ... Most often the response would be that he would step it up to prove you wrong ... Try that with a female athlete and most often the result would be " You think that sucked? Watch this, I'll show you suck".
That being said, that type of punishment is frowned upon ... You can get your point across without risking serious injury ... A couple years ago I had two athletes that just could not get along ... One Saturday I gave the entire team a choice, practice as usual or they could run a 5K for charity ... Half ran, half stayed and practiced with the JV coaches ... The two happened to be on the not running squad, the JV coach lost control and they went fist-a-cuffs ... The coach not knowing what to do ended practice early. On Monday I interviewed the athletes present, the coaches present and lastly the two brawlers ... I put one on 1st base and one on 3rd base bringing one at a time to the rubber to tell their own side of the story ... The stories were very similar and I realized that these gals didn't really know why they hated each other ... (One was a black girl, one white, one wealthy, one less so, one a Freshman, one a Senior - both similar talent vying for similar positions) ... I brought them together at the rubber and had each of them, one at a time tell the other something about themselves that the other gal didn't know ... Boyfriend, girlfriend, parents, siblings, divorces, separations etc etc ... After 10 minutes they were realizing they had more in common than they did differences ... After they were giggling and smiling a little I tied them together like a three legged race and had them run hills for 10 minutes ... For the rest of the year they were made to be each others partner for T work, throwing, ball every days,clean ups, work outs, bathroom partner etc etc ...