NumeroUno wrote:So you can't just keep adding girls to the roster someone has to go

Except for most of the top teams many of the 12U teams do not have full rosters & can still add players. Even So Cal Jynx when I saw them a few months ago only had 9 or 10 players at that time and I know they were still looking, but were waiting for the right player, so had room to add without cutting anyone. Too many teams in So Cal, especially OC that teams always have room to add a good player, even if they have a full roster.
I agree with the post that a lot of parents are looking for the "right fit" (greener grass) for their dd. I think lasik surgery would do a lot better for many of them.