Sean Jordan wrote:Runner misses home plate very obviously to me and the umpire. He does not make a call safe or out...
Good for him! He shouldn't be calling anything on the missed base unless/until a proper appeal is made.
Sean Jordan wrote:...the girl continues into the dugout while I am telling pitcher to tag her. No tag is applied before she get in the dugout.
If there would have been a tag, accompanied with a verbal appeal like, "She missed the plate", then that would have been a valid live ball appeal.
By the way, the runner could have gone back and touched the plate at any point up until she stepped into the dugout. Once she entered a dead ball area, she lost her right to correct her baserunning mistake.
Sean Jordan wrote:My self and the pitcher tell the umpire the base was missed. I assumed this to be a dead ball appeal as my pitcher walked back to the circle.
The ball isn't dead just because the pitcher "walked back to the circle". You or your player should have first requested "time" and waited until it was granted.
Then the ball would be dead and you could make a dead ball appeal.
Sean Jordan wrote:Is that the proper appeal? He forced us to go through the step on the rubber, step off the rubber, throw to the catcher, and step on home plate. He then called her out. Proper appeal is a little fuzzy in the book. How should I have handled it?
As noted, a dead ball appeal must be made when the ball is actually dead. Wait for all play to stop, then request time.
Now, the umpire seems to not have a good handle on how a dead ball appeal works. None of that "step on the rubber, step off, throw to the base, tag the base" stuff is necessary to make a dead ball appeal. All you need is to have an infielder, with or without the ball, verbally state to the umpire what is being appealed.
The appeal process might vary a little bit depending on which rule set you're using. Some require a player to make the appeal, some allow it to come from a coach. I'm not aware of any that require the "step on rubber/throw to base/tag base" routine, which is really something from baseball.
So...which rule set were you playing under and which part is "fuzzy" in their rule book?