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by artomatic » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:13 pm

CharlieHough wrote:I was there...up close...have good friends on both teams.

All I know. I think it is time for:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu_moia-oVI


dammit!
rick rolled!

people, go easy on the font colors! someone is going to have a seizure...
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by AM Softball » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:15 pm

Trophy Hunter wrote:To All Rebel Parents -

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer.

It intimidates and frightens many of the opposing players. And you know this.

You must. You can see it in the eyes of the opposing pitcher when she glances up at the phalanx of screaming adults in your bleachers.

You employ the chant to kick the other team when they're down.

It is unsportsmanlike at this age level.

It is the primary reason incidents such as the one Sunday always seem to involve your team.

It is the reason your team is the most reviled in SoCal Travel Ball.

It reflects poorly on your yourselves, your coaches, and most importantly, your daughters.

Parents don't respond well when their children are being frightened and intimidated by a group of adults.

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer, it is a provocation.

If you weren't aware before this, you are now.

In the future, please conduct yourselves accordingly. :idea: :idea: :idea:


The Rebel chant is a CHEER and NOBODY will tell our organization not to cheer for our own team. There is NOTHING wrong with cheering for your own team and I suggest you start a team chant. We won't complain. It IS a sports game. Have you ever been to a Laker game? Clipper game? Football game? They CHANT their name and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it.

Thanks for letting everyone know how much it bothers you. I bet they do it more now.
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by anonlooker » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:16 pm

anonlooker wrote:
AM Softball wrote:

Thank you and I have had NUMEROUS parents and Corona Angel parents already write us an apologize. If it was the "ghetto Rebels," why did CA parents apologize? Just curious on that. The tournament director took both sides and after hearing our side allowed us to continue playing so if we were at fault, why were we not kicked out? Add everything up and common sense tells you that the losing team was probably frustrated much more than the Rebels.


Two things:

First, the CA coaches / parents most likely apologized because they understand a member of their "team family" was in part responsible for the incident. Apologizing would be the stand-up thing to do. Did any Rebel parents or coaches apologize for their role?

Second, when I add everything up, common sense tells me to get the children out of there, as quickly as possible. Take them somewhere they feel safe, where you can discuss what happened.

Putting them back out on the field, and subjecting them to the beating they took, is unconscionable. What the hell were you thinking?



AM, and other Rebel parents, how about an answer to the question in bold?
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by AM Softball » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:22 pm

goodeye wrote:
anonlooker wrote:
AM Softball wrote:

Thank you and I have had NUMEROUS parents and Corona Angel parents already write us an apologize. If it was the "ghetto Rebels," why did CA parents apologize? Just curious on that. The tournament director took both sides and after hearing our side allowed us to continue playing so if we were at fault, why were we not kicked out? Add everything up and common sense tells you that the losing team was probably frustrated much more than the Rebels.


Two things:

First, the CA coaches / parents most likely apologized because they understand a member of their "team family" was in part responsible for the incident. Apologizing would be the stand-up thing to do. Did any Rebel parents or coaches apologize for their role?

Second, when I add everything up, common sense tells me to get the children out of there, as quickly as possible. Take them somewhere they feel safe, where you can discuss what happened.

Putting them back out on the field, and subjecting them to the beating they took, is unconscionable. What the hell were you thinking?


Exactly what I have been thinking. Think this incident had anything to do with the "10 errors" mentioned earlier in this thread?


So you think it would have been better that the kids, who worked hard to get to the Championship game, should have been told forget it? Wow I'm glad you aren't on my team. That would be worse for the kids in my opinion. They deserved to play, regardless of the outcome. They earned it by advancing to it.
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by peacenlove » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:25 pm

Re: surf city updates
peacenlove wrote:
Clean_up,

Obviously you’re only representing your team (Corona Angels)…..I was there, you are lying, be for real or don’t post anymore, you’re making a fool out of yourself. What matters is that a bunch of girls witness this incident, two adult females got hurt, and you’re going to sit there and defend him. How are you still part of this organization (Corona Angels)? You’re making no sense! There are plenty of witnesses who will say the truth….like I said earlier doesn’t matter if your part of the Rebels or Corona Angels.


I am not lying about anything, this situation is terrible. I am NOT defending anyone. OMG, I didn't even see the fight!

[b]Stop acting like you did....You've been commenting like you watched/heard everything happen. You parent's conduct was inappropriate and no need for that. While you we're trying to calm your girls down...Rebel girls witness the whole thing. How do you think they felt, they watched a mom and their coach get hurt by a man?
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by AM Softball » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:29 pm

hotwheels wrote:
AM Softball wrote:
hotwheels wrote:I hear what you are saying but you are acting like your team had no fault here.....Don't taunt the other team....That didn't help things.....You guys were both way out of line and both parties are to blame not just one team.......DON'T BLAME.....FIX!


Nobody taunted anyone except the Angels taunting the Rebels (1 Angel coach and 1 Angel parent). Bottom line. After the "taunting" got OUT OF CONTROL BY ONE ANGEL PARENT, the Rebel parents defended our kids by telling this drunk fool to shut up. This is when he rushed to our side trying to fight in the stands. He was held back, but he obviously wanted more when he ran at our crowd.

Hotwheels, I am not sure if you are a man or a woman but if you are a man, and some lunatic ran as fast as possible, swung and hit your daughters FEMALE coach, and another MOM on the team, would you have tried to stop him or would you try and discuss things calmly when he's swinging at your wife? Just curious.


Yes, you are absolutely correct but at that point it's too late. Of course I would a fighting madman at that point but I was mainly referring to prior to it getting to that point...I was responding to what someone who probably wasn't there either wrote but what they had said was that after the game there were Rebels parents yelling at this Angel parent from across the field. Then the Angel parent took off running at them....

My point was if they weren't yelling at him from across the would he have still charged over there??? Possibly but maybe not....I was only trying to say that in situations/conflicts like this it ALWAYS takes to two....Very, very rarely is it one sided....

I think the Rebels (If this is even true by the way) had the responsibility of not taunting him when the situation was hot to begin with.....The Angel parent has his own responsibilities that caused his part too....Him charging over is whole other crazy issue!


This is why rumors are rumors. There were TWO incidents. Cleanup admitted that a Rebel parent said "Suck what?" and it got heated. WHY DID HE SAY SUCK WHAT? Why that choice of words? Why, because the ANGEL parent said Suck Amie, F*** Amie, Flipping our stands off with both of his hands (IN FRONT OF GIRLS) and was doing pelvic thrusts. Cleanup, thanks. That's even MORE DEFENSE that we were spoken to FIRST in the stands. If the ANGEL parent wasn't screaming profanity in the stands, none of this would have happened.

THEN, everyone wet their separate ways. NOBODY SAID ANYTHING TO THIS MAN ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FIELD when the second incident occurred. NOTHING. NOT ONE WORD. If you played at HB complex, you know how far the fences are (200 feet). They were beyong the RF fence, and the Rebels were beyong the LF fence. Do you think anyone could have yelled that far and not ONE CA parent hear this?

It didn't happened. The guy stormed over for no reason and NOTHING was said to him to taunt him and hopefully, if you want to be real with everyone, the CA parents will admit they heard NOTHING at that point in this incident.
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by Clean_up » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:39 pm

First of all, I never said anyone lied about anything. I just repeated what I had heard later what was said between Aimie and our coach. What words were actually exchanged between the two, I do not know. I have made it clear that there was no tension in our stands with parents regarding anything transpiring on the field or because of a complaint made to the umpire. I made a guess as to why the parent in question started yelling AIMIE in the same chant as the REBELS chant, I HAVE NO IDEA why he did it.

Secondly, we already have said 100 times that we are sorry for the behavior of the one Angels parent involved with the disgusting exchange between the Rebels parent AFTER the game while the teams were shaking hands. NO ONE from the Corona Angels thinks that the REBELS are at fault for the altercation, only that there was back and forth exchanges and things being said and done by BOTH parents that had no business being said or done, ESPECIALLY at a youth sports event. Apparently accepting any sort of responsibility for anything said or done by their parent is an unreasonable expectation.

And lastly, whatever happened when the Angels parent ran over there, who pushed whom, who hit whom, is left to the investigators. I only repeated that there are a variety of stories from other witnesses and the truth of the matter will come out. I am not defending anybody, I am not calling anyone a liar, I wasn't on that side of the field because I was helping get the kids put their gear away and get them out of there.

So, I guess I am the bad guy now for clearing up some of the rumors and suggesting that some repsonsibility for the initial altercation lay with the Rebels parent. Oh, well.... It is what it is.
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by softballjunkie365 » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:42 pm

AM Softball wrote:
Trophy Hunter wrote:To All Rebel Parents -

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer.

It intimidates and frightens many of the opposing players. And you know this.

You must. You can see it in the eyes of the opposing pitcher when she glances up at the phalanx of screaming adults in your bleachers.

You employ the chant to kick the other team when they're down.

It is unsportsmanlike at this age level.

It is the primary reason incidents such as the one Sunday always seem to involve your team.

It is the reason your team is the most reviled in SoCal Travel Ball.

It reflects poorly on your yourselves, your coaches, and most importantly, your daughters.

Parents don't respond well when their children are being frightened and intimidated by a group of adults.

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer, it is a provocation.

If you weren't aware before this, you are now.

In the future, please conduct yourselves accordingly. :idea: :idea: :idea:


The Rebel chant is a CHEER and NOBODY will tell our organization not to cheer for our own team. There is NOTHING wrong with cheering for your own team and I suggest you start a team chant. We won't complain. It IS a sports game. Have you ever been to a Laker game? Clipper game? Football game? They CHANT their name and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it.

Thanks for letting everyone know how much it bothers you. I bet they do it more now.


Trophy Hunter I almost cried when I read your post it was like a bunch of smelly garbage!! Its obvious you never been apart of a winning team! Are you in rehab over the Rebel Cheer!! Wait until they bring out the terrible towels all red with skulls on them....LOL just kidding

You need to watch the Tarheels play when everybody goes Tarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Heeeeeeeeeeelssssssss over and over (Same Thing Mr. Sensitive). Please stop using the 12 U girls as a decoy to make your point! The only one who has a problem with it are people like you point blank!!! I have seen so many parents cursing at their kids when the game was over because they didn't win or didn't play well and now the Rebel cheer is a bad thing!!! Stop Reaching..............Please......You people who have a problem with it need serious counseling period!! I bet if you daughter played on our team it wouldn't be a problem right??? LOL
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by AM Softball » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:44 pm

kevin wrote:Anyone have have video of the "REBEL" chant they can post on Youtube :?: 8-) I've gotta see this.


I hope so too. Then EVERYONE will see what REALLY happened and I'd bet the Angels will be the discussion and NOT the Rebels. Madman running like a bull in a ring swinging at females first TRYING to stop this in front of the kids. It will also show our location in comparison to the Angel parents.

It will show we DID try to stop this, because of the KIDS, and anyone in the vicinity witnessed this. He's CRAZY!

It will also show why some of the women involved had pulled muscles and other injuries and needed medical treatment today. He's CRAZY!

The funny thing....since the Rebels are so classless...we talked about this with 3 different police officers yesteray and they all said we had a right to defend ourselves and even make a citizen's arrest. We told them we wanted to work it out within the organizations and with Gary and Dan, and we didn't want to file because of the kid and that she has had enough embarassment with all that happened. We didn't think him being arressted and court hearings all year would make it any better. God forgive us for considering the KID first, which is most peoples main concern.

Was he worried about our kids (who were mixed in with the large group) when he dropped 2 Moms?
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by AM Softball » Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:49 pm

dodgerblue wrote:This started out as a serious post and has had me busting up for the last 30 minutes. My take on this is the game should have ended and both coaches should have controlled the parents and just cancelled the game. Don't let it get out of hand just to keep playing in a meaningless tournament. We had this happen a while back parents were adults about it seperated everyone and everybody went their seperate ways sometimes it gets heated but someone needs to step up and difuse the situation. This looks like it was preventable, now the 12 yr old girls are tramatized good job both of you. Enough of he said she said save yourself the humiliation that you have caused both of your orginazations and stop airing out your dirty laundry here.


After we told the umpire we'd forfeit to end it, the coach stopped. All of this happened after the game was over.

And we aren't embarrassed to discuss this in front of ANYONE because we know what REALLY happened nd still feel it today. We are saddened that it turned out this way in front of the kids when the psycho dad could have left and it would have ONLY been words in the stands.
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