by gunshy » Thu Mar 12, 2009 5:01 am
Clay, those phone calls are among the toughest things associated with coaching at any level. My first year coaching 10u we had an open tryout and had 35 kids show up and I was looking for 7. I personally called each one of the parents of the players that we did not take; some were hurt, some mad, some were realistic and knew already and others thanked me for being honest. That was the LAST open tryout my team has ever held. As for the calls, make them quickly and be honest. Try to be positive and mention good traits of the player, but ultimately be honest in explaining why their daughter isn't a good fit for the team and how it is best for the team and the player to go different directions.
Bucketboy, our HS had 19 players and we do not cut......just ask what number they want!!!
At least we will have a JV team this year.