I don't care if you're the nicest guy in the world-you come out in a clown suit with a red mohawk pulling hummer wagon, people are going to talk. I'm kinda jealous actually...I lost most of my hair in my early 30s!
I think it is a great thing to pump these girls up. There will be plenty enough people out in the world to tell them they Can't. They need a strong voice in their corner telling them that they can. If they work hard with confidence they can achive.