Why are you worried about anything else except your DD. Like Luther said, teach your DD
to focus on herself and things she can control. If not you will be on 5 different teams in a year, if you haven't already!!!
BTW, just because you pay doesnt mean you always get good coaching or fundamentals!!
Like lookingIN says, tryout for Demarini then you wont have to worry about it. Although, It will just be something else you have a problem with!!!