I agree with everyone on this topic, but my point was this; if your daughter at age 10 or even 9 does not know basic fundamentals don't tell me that they will make a team like AASA, Grapettes, Mayhem, or even any other 10's. And if they do, you and the team will go through major growings pains by losing and that's no fun. You learn fundamentals in rec and continue them in travel, but they still have to be advance with those skills. I've been around softball for decades and I've never seen a team having a great time losing by the run rule everytime.
I agree traveling out of state is crazy for ten's but that's the way it is now days. It's kind of like technology, get with it or fall behind. Girls at any age can lose or gain interest.
Yes, parents are the main reason why 10's and 12's are really competetive, but once again those are the times.
For those of you who want their daughters to learn fundamentals in travel great idea and good luck, but they need to have some fundamentals under their belts. If not they will be watching from the sidelines or dugout.