by dittoz » Wed Sep 16, 2009 7:11 am
Do you really see the intensity level change from the KIDS in a friendly or is it a reaction to the coaches' or parents' mentality? You're a different kind of coach compared to many, but in general I've always seen that real players play, no matter what the venue. They react to the way coaches and parents act and approach situations - give them a task, challenge them, set goals and point out improvements as well as correct errors (positively) and the kids will react accordingly. Walk into a friendly with a low-impact, low effort mindset and yeah - it ain't gonna be pretty. (And yes, I know your team isn't run that way...)
Note that I never said kids aren't or don't get in during tourneys. I always got everyone in on Saturdays, and even again on Sundays. I know there are some coaches who only play the best 9 and everyone else just needs to get better if they want to play, but that isn't the way to develop a player in my opinion. Not at 12 and 13 anyway.
But when it comes to a friendly versus a tourney, and esp in the fall, it's really all about teaching and developing in my opinion. Why wouldn't you sit a good hitter at times in the fall? Regardless, that can be done in either venue, and why pay $400 just so little Sally can have yet another medal or get to experience going home early on Sunday?
Being from NorCal, what do I know anyway???