by Iluvblue » Wed Nov 30, 2011 8:06 pm
Well lets get real.... in probably 95% of the cases, mom and dad are deciding where their kid is playing, not the player. And when you are talking about 12u and even into 14u those numbers will be their highest.
IMO, the coaches need to give people reasons to stay. I coached in 14u for quite a while(because I love that age) and my last 3 or 4 14 u teams, I rarely had kids leave(I also rarely replaced anyone, twice carrying the exact same roster from Fall into Summer). That goes for player 11-12 just as much as player 1-2. Everyone says people leave for greener pastures....... well what does that mean? Does that mean a higher quality team? Does that mean a team that charges less in fees? Does that mean a team where said player will have a better opportunity to play her desired position? Does that mean a team that has better coaching? A team with less drama? A team closer to home?
There are a myriad of reasons players switch teams, and IMO, it is up to the coach of the team to address those reasons as much as possible if they want to keep players. If a team is constantly struggling to keep players, they should look in the mirror before they go looking to blame all of those people that are leaving.
Most teams wont keep 100% of their players, and most teams dont want to keep 100% of their players, but I cant imagine why a team wouldnt want to keep 10 out of 12 or 12 out of 16 which is somewhere in the 75-85% range.
I just returned 22 out of 26 players between our 16u and 18g teams. Only 2 players left on their own, and 1 of those 2 was because they wanted to continue pitching, something that I made clear wasnt going to happen on our team moving forward.
Parents want their kids getting taught.... that to me is the single most important thing teams need to do to keep the players they have. Everything else is secondary.