by 6to4to3 » Tue Mar 06, 2012 9:41 am
Here is my thinking – Let’s say your 2015 grad DD is bad a&& and is playing on a super elite 18U or 18 Gold team full of 2013 grads. When the colleges are scouting that elite ball club for their 2013 recruiting class I doubt they are considering your 2015 daughter. Even if she is the stud the schools don’t even know their budget/schedule/roster for the 2015 class your DD is in. Their many verbals haven’t committed yet so their needs can change whenever if those verbals change their minds last minute (which happens all the time). Sure they might take note but let’s say all your 2013’s sign letters and head off to college, your kid is there swinging in the wind without that super elite team playing in the super elite tourneys to even get looked at again. Unless she stumbles along another elite 18 gold team of 2015’s, and in that case she has to try to fit in to an established team in her biggest recruiting year(s). That and the coach from a couple years ago might have notes that have “player #10” from team “NAME”, then coach heads to a college showcase looking for those noted players…and that team is dust.
I know what you are thinking. We emailed and called that coach and he/she knows we switched teams. Your emails and calls (unanswered until Sr. year) are one of hundreds of thousands that coach has to deal with. Oh yeah while they are coaching their current season, tutoring players, proxy’ing tests, recruiting, and trying to have some sort of personal life. Chances aren’t good that coach will remember player A from back in the day and put 2 and 2 together unless she’s like THE STUD of the state, in which case she is verballed by Jr. year anyways so none of this matters.
This is what I see in the area (NorCal) way too much. 15 yr olds playing on a scrub 18U/Gold team so Mom and Dad can tell their friends that DD is an 18U/Gold player… A local team that would have it handed to them vs. most So Cal 14U teams anyways.
Get your DD age pure by 2nd year 14U or first year 16U is my thought. She can be part of the building that team process, learn what it takes to get a “team” to the elite status vs. showing up to another team that has already spent years doing so.