by triplecrown » Thu Nov 22, 2012 9:23 am
The Grapettes org has expanded its geographic's over the last several years (as has everyone else), therefore the entire Valley from Modesto to East Bay to Sacramento has players wearing the Grapes shirt. There are a lot of kids playing softball which is a good thing IMO but, the quality is suffering, both in coaching and team play. I am a fan of development first at the younger ages (so choose wisely), second competing is crucial, playing for a team that can play with the better teams so you get better yourself is key, and winning against the better teams instills confidence, and confidence produces mental toughness that kids will need as they move on. I am kind of selfish and want my kid surrounded by the best kids in her age group, making her work harder therefore ultimately a better player, and the way things are going now, its virtually impossible. Some will say, you can get better playing weaker opponents, that b.s in my book, never believed in that theory, never will. Sure you will get a false sense of security, is that what you really want?
Ask yourself, why are we playing travel ball, what is our goal as a family?
Recruiting is getting younger for sure, we have top kids being offered in 8th grade today that just three years ago would have been offered as 10th graders. Its getting so sad that you will see the top college coachs watching 14s now trying to snag a soon to be 8th grader. So it is so crucial to be on a team that develops your kid early. Ultimately, you have to do whats right for your family, for your kid, because for the majority the college scholarship is a dream, but for the minority its a reality so put yourself in a position that will best suit your kid, as by the time they get to Gold the best ones will just be baby sat and spoken for, for four years, and thats expensive, both monetarily and development wise, while all the rest are hoping to taken to the promise land by their coach (the unknown will mentally crush people), so choose wisely!