triplecrown wrote:Let me reiterate, IF you are able to find a coach that can teach proper fundamentals at 10's, the wins will be a byproduct, but it should not be about wins/losses, it should be exposing the 8/9yr olds to the game of softball, nothing more nothing less. I see too many people getting caught up in the b.s. of going for the throat at 9yrs old and it gives kids a bad taste, cmon people let the little ones enjoy the game while they are learning, it gets serious enough quick enough, geez
The problem I see is way to much chirping and not enough truly teaching the game, and I understand that at 10's you are going to have quite a few dads coaching that really cant teach the game, well when Suzy boots one or Sally goes down swinging at one over her head, encourage them and dont yell at them or give them bad body language, as they truly are trying what you have been hopefully teaching them. Dont get me wrong there are a lot of good dads that really understand this, but the bad apples really stand out and it is very discouraging.
I would love for my daughter to have had quality instruction during her 8u season and despite not having good athletes athletes, maybe the game could've been more enjoyable and the team might've even better more competitive. But, she was on a team where head coach's daughter hated the game, but was being forced to play, so that other girl would do things deliberately to sabotage her team. Add to that the fact that there were 4-5 other girls who didn't want to be there, but their parents - friends of the coach - wanted them to play.
It wasn't about half the girls having talent and the other half not. Half the team just had little to no interest in playing from day one and the parents weren't listening. The head coach is returning this year, so since our league does not allow 'do not draft' requests, I informed the league that my daughter would have to move up to the higher division.
Doesn't have to be fiecely competitive, but you've gotta give the girls a good experience at ANY age.


























