Why they play----someday it will pay off

[fanofthegame]

I can't take credit for this, its a copy and paste job. Anyway, read it and it may help keep everything in perspective.


You see athletes large, small and in between. Some are gifted and know it, so they coast. Others are not and know it, so they work like crazy. A select few are gifted and work like crazy.
There is a place for all of them in youth, junior high and high school sports.
There also is a place for their parents. So many places. You find them behind the wheel, in dugouts, on benches, in lawn chairs, at concession stands, in hotel lobbies.
They work ahead or work split shifts or work into the wee hours, all in an attempt to be there when the boy or girl they welcomed into the world digs in with the bases loaded or drives to the basket.
Occasionally, they look in the mirror or at the bank statement and wonder, "Is it worth it? Is all of this really worth it?"
Here's the good news, a tad late for Mother's Day, but early for Father's Day.
Yes.
It is absolutely worth it.
The wins and losses fade. Trophies collect dust in an attic. Stat sheets wind up in a recycle bin.
None of them matter.
You realize it years later. Like the day you wake up and your youngest is graduating from college.
At our house, it is Friday.
You hear her talk about a semester-long project that involved building a city - designing the water system, infrastructure, etc. - and the mind drifts to softball diamonds here and in other cities, other states.
It was a group project requiring strategy, planning, execution and, more than anything, teamwork. Sports introduced her to all of it.
They taught her that life isn't always fair. Line drives get caught. Bloopers fall in. Umpires miss calls. Players drop balls.
Deal with it. Learn from it. Move on.
Sports strengthened their resolve, toughened their skin. So when an irate boss openly voices his/her displeasure, they can tell a concerned co-worker: "It's OK. I've had coaches yell at me."
Doesn't mean they like it, doesn't make it right. But they can handle it.
Sports prepare them to manage success and disappointment, deal with adversity. Remember that the next time you drive six hours to a sweltering summer tournament, or shiver under a blanket at a spring doubleheader.
It's worth it.
Just be sure to occasionally take a breath, take a step back and take a second to enjoy the moment. It doesn't last much beyond that.
Games turn to seasons and seasons to years, faster than you can say, "Do you have everything in your bat bag?"
Squeeze what you can from the long rides, the overnight stays. You never get those back. Be a shame to waste them listening to an iPod or dwelling on a loss.
Encourage them to succeed but allow them to fail. They learn from both.
Be there either way. It's all they will remember.
Experience the journey with them, not through them. You had your time. This is theirs, no matter how many hours you contribute.
Keep in mind, the key is not whether they make or miss the winning shot, but accept responsibility for taking it. If they can do that, they won't shy away from much at work, in school, in life.
Hold them accountable beyond the court/field. Remind them playing sports is like any privilege. It can be taken away.
Finally, continue to give them love and support, win or lose. Stay in the game.
It's worth it.

[joaquinjunior]

thank you for that paper. God bless

[softballmom7000]

Great Post !

[The Farm]

Thanks for posting this...

[softball_rules5]

Great post! Maybe should have put on the 10u thread for them to read. My dad constantly tells me to not get caught up in the current and enjoy the journey...I think we all need to have someone remind us of that occasionally.

[softballmom7000]

Great post! Maybe should have put on the 10u thread for them to read. My dad constantly tells me to not get caught up in the current and enjoy the journey...I think we all need to have someone remind us of that occasionally.

I thought the exact same thing!!!! Maybe you can copy and paste it on there ..lol

[daddy]

FYI: Almost everyone on the 10U thread is also reading the other threads! You don't need to copy and paste stuff to other threads just because you think the 10U parents/coaches are only reading the 10U thread. Maybe we should also copy and paste it to California's, Illinios', well every state with that thread, just so you know that you have covered all of us "over excited" 10u parents.

[BVarson]

FYI: Almost everyone on the 10U thread is also reading the other threads! You don't need to copy and paste stuff to other threads just because you think the 10U parents/coaches are only reading the 10U thread. Maybe we should also copy and paste it to California's, Illinios', well every state with that thread, just so you know that you have covered all of us stupid 10U parents!

Ding...Ding...Ding... Folks we have a winner!!! Someone is a little touchy though ... The good news daddy, in 6 or so years, you will look back and truely call your 10u behavior stupid and mean it.

[LunaCoach1]

This is a great post no matter where you got it! Thank you very much! I shared this with my whole team!

Have a great holiday weekend!

Luna Coach

[T1UP4ME]

I hung this up at work because i get told that we waste too much money on girls hitting balls with a stick and the responce i got was obviously written by someone who makes money on travel softball.