onlooker wrote:ICMTM wrote:How is this any different than most teams put together??????? We used to just call it daddy ball and move on. Why is this incarnation such news?
No team in my decades here has ever produced the following ad with as much anticipation as Team Cali:
Players are paid for
DeMarini is sponsor
National team members/gold medalists are coaches
Elite team of the finest talent in nor cal
Sure, knuckleheads like LaGabed say they have an Elite team, but NONE have tried to put themselves on as high of pedestal that LK/JT/CE/MG attempted to put this team on when advertising for tryouts. In the end ONLY, it is no different than most teams put together. I agree! But, in the beginning, it was labeled as a team that one should have been proud to make. Nope, not the case. The girls and families were duped as you so well stated by "typical daddy ball". I couldnt agree more.
Money talks! When things are put together quickly, without framework, they fall apart just as quick. It's still daddy ball. I had a crossroad of my own. Do I continue to coach or not? I came to the conclusion that just training my own kids and finding good situations for them would work. I was extremely close to starting up a team. I takes three times the effort to do that versus just training your own kid. Actually I digress. We did start our own comp soccer teams twice (son and daughter). What I learned from that is if you don't have a dynamite core...don't bother. Although we became good teams (taking home hardware in about 25% of the tournaments we entered) we realized that people don't come to you until AFTER you've won something. The exception is free lunch.
Now I am for free lunch...I'm 230...gotta eat, but (and I may be wrong...please correct if so) but the CYPC follows the PAL model. I just think the target audience is severely missed as they are attracting people ALREADY playing (therefore demonstrating the ability to afford) softball. I'm not going to say that is unethical, but it appears the intent is to build a winning program around the kid versus saving inner city youth.
watchtonsofsoftball wrote:I think I'm out to lunch on what the hell is going on in this entire post but what I do know is I'm not seeing a lot of player development over the past several years.
Player development.....buahahahahahaha!
Parents trust their hitting, pitching, catching coaches but are extremely skeptical of their head coaches. When the winning doesn't happen...greener pastures are sought after. Comp softball more closely represents the NBA. Free agency happens every six months though.
Certain coaches have turnover for certain reasons. There has also been a culture shift of parents allowing kids to quit midseason and join other teams. My mom reminds me of the one time I said that. She said yeah you can quit, but you're never playing again! I made it work. My own kid had an issue with one of our coaches. I told her you can "be right" and sit or make it work. She made it work. The culture has shifted to allow teenage girls to act out. There is little parental culture that says "stay here and make it work."