by Blind Squirrel » Tue Feb 04, 2020 3:47 pm
To me the answer is 100% a function of the particular child. I believe that playing up can be the very best move for a kid who is able to raise their game to a noticeably higher level when playing with/against better competition. I experienced this myself back in the day playing basketball. OTOH there are kids whose game doesn't get better, the kid is intimidated, doesn't have enough self confidence, is miserable and sits on the bench. Not good. And BTW, all this applies to any age group as far as I can tell, from quite young to quite old.
My suggestion is to talk with the kid to see how they feel about playing with/against older kids. Kids that are bigger, stronger, faster, etc. If the kid is receptive give it a try. If it isn't working out your kid will know and, big deal, they go back to playing with their age group.
For me my kid's sports were about 2 things: Having fun and preparation for adulthood. It seems to me that a kid who successfully takes on the challenge of playing up, works on her game and sees herself thrive will be an adult more likely to take on challenges that result in personal growth and potentially more.
Just my view, a simpleton's perspective. Back in my hole.
Basketball Jones Squirrel
10 years from now I'll wish I felt like I do these days.