Is it better for a 13 year old to be on a winning team where she won’t get as much play time but will have the exposure to better players as competition or on a team where she gets a lot of play time and development and attention from coaches but the team can’t seem to compete successfully on a regular basis.
She has grown a lot being on a team like this because of the play time, I’m just unsure of when to make that jump or if it even matters at 13.