Getting Back to what I think was the question....
Yes, two years ago my wife and I both wanted to go to my DD's softball games rather than my son's baseball games. Problem for me was ..... I was my son's coach.
My son was not the problem (except when it came to hitting), it was the other 8 year old little monsters (okay only half the team). I had one kid bunt with bases loaded (force at Home Plate), he was more concerned with getting on base than helping the team score a run.

Had another kid who when pitching would reach his limit of HBP before the second out

and his parents thought he was the best player on my team. I could go on and on and on ..... but I won't.
Going to my son's games I was stressed out .... but when I went to my DD's games I could relax and enjoy myself.
P.S. I was asked to volunteer to coach because the league did not want two other parents to coach a team.
The secret to happiness is a Good Sense of Humor and a Bad Memory.