by coolstuff » Mon May 04, 2009 5:29 am
Returning to a previous thread....
DD has a choir performance tonight that conflicts with a JV-only game. She talked to the JV coaches who told her that was alright, they make allowances for school events. That is a little bit different feel than she got from the HC earlier in the season also concerning a choir conflict with a practice. The difference seems to be that, on my advice, DD talked to the JV coaches two weeks ago, and approached it as "what's your policy." In the other conflict, she told the HC the day before the performance that she wouldn't be at practice. I think the difference was in the approach. Instead of waiting for the last minute to TELL a coach you're not going to be there, it's better to notify the coach well ahead of the conflict and ask for a clarification.