does it make sense to have your dd play up when she doesnt..

[thebest14uhitterinaz]

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[AZ Bomber]

In most cases NO. It is true the player may get pushed a little more in practices by playing with better players at a faster pace, but what parents/player dont realize is the mental game does not develop the same. The player spends all their time being a follower, a role player, and quite frankly just another dues payer. In order for a player to develop to full potential they must have the chance to be a leader, they must have success, and they must be on the field at all times. The ones that move on and keep improving are the ones that have developed extreme confidence and leadership, not the ones who can warm up the older player.

[sftblljunkie]

I think some girls should play up. It challenges them more. Of course, as Bomber stated, that player must have the capability and the mental state to play with older girls. I have always played my oldest daughter up when I could and it has been great for her. She loves the intensity and the drive that the older girls have. My youngest girl, however, is content to stay with the group she is in now and we feel no need to push her. Sometimes, the girl can better tell you where and how she wants to play...they're the car and the parents just help her steer it.