I'm glad you mentioned coach Flan, any coach that has his players step on the plate to extend a game due to his team losing well never be a good coach.
I hear what you are saying, and have been at the receiving end to one of their coaches (not the 95's) ridiculously managing the clock (shoe tying, fake injuries, timeouts, etc), but I think the situation you're describing is good game tactics & managing the game, if it's a bracket game. That's part of his job, just like pitch calling. If it's a meaningless pool game and you do it for bragging rights, shame on you, your players should have hit/fielded better.
But if it's a go-home or place decision, step on the bag, send your runner early, whatever. If I'm at the receiving end, then my girls should have hit/fielded better and not put themselves in a position to lose and given up control to another coach.
JMHO