softballmom65 wrote:good group of girls who support each other and have fun together and a core of parents that will stay together and do whats best for there DD and themselves!!!!
Just curious, how do you do that if you don't get on a team?
How do you learn about better and worse coaches if you have never played travel ball before?
Most girls start by getting together with the girls that played all star rec together through 8s & 10s and they like all stars, but are starting to have a hard time getting through the regular season just to get to all stars. So, the dad(s) [or mom(s)] that did a pretty good job coaching all stars, where the girls had fun, played some good games and got a lot better by playing better teams figure: "I guess the next step is travel ball." But the closest team is 45 minutes away and 8 of us live practically walking distance from our community park. We can invite a couple of girls to join us and a travel team is born.
What is wrong with that?
I know that is how my older DD got started and that was when we still lived in So Cal.
Was our first game at a friendly a rude awakening? Oh yeah!
Girls complained about how hard our coach hit the grounders in practice. After practicing 5 or 6 times, the girls' first game ever as a team happened to be against a team that about 2 months earlier won the 12U ASA National Championship. Time ran out in their half of the second inning with the score in the mid 20's.
By the end of the fall, we were playing .500 ball and the following spring went to Western Nationals and did OK. My DD is now on partial scholarship in the Pac10. If she had gone and tried out for a "National Contender", she may have ended up hanging out at the mall instead of playing ball.
I'm sorry that all these teams are diluting the quality of the teams to the point where your DD can't have the appropriate supporting cast for you to win a National Championship.
I just think all these girls deserve a chance to play and find out if softball is the sport for them. The only way that can happen is there enough teams for everyone to play. Besides, a large percentage of those girls won't come back, and then another chunk won't go to 14s. Then driver's license and boys and you lose another significant percentage. Just find a coach that can teach her a little bit along the way and, as you put it:
have fun
Again, JMO, we can certainly agree to disagree on this one.
I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on the frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words.
--- Hesiod, Eighth Century B.C.