by 23Skidoo » Thu Mar 17, 2011 1:23 pm
Frarm, I'm not sure if this is what you are looking for, but I'll give you my thoughts. Let me know if it helps. If it doesn't, perhaps it will aide someone else down the line.
The most important thing to do to initiate the process is determine what your daughter wants. That is, make sure it is her desire to play softball in college and not just yours. Once you mutually agree, I would encourage her to set goals for her school season, her travel season, etc.
My daughter set a goal at 10-years old that she wanted to play softball at the D-1 level. She set several other goals along the way, including academic goals. From there, we mapped out a plan that we thought would take her where she wanted to go, but we really had no idea what we were doing and I didn't really know anyone who had been through the process. I talked to several people along the way. Don't be shy.
Although there were many unexpected changes on the map, each change was positive and ultimately ended with my daughter trying to decide which D-1 offer to take.
The most important thing your daughter can begin doing now is getting herself physically and mentally ready to play at each level. I might suggest getting her into some type of softball program that is going to challenge her as a player (over and above practicing with her travel team). My daughter has always worked with the same hitting/fielding instructors, but the challenge level of her training has always increased without losing focus on basic fundamentals. My daughter also worked with various speed and strength trainers and we found this to be very helpful. Whatever you do, don't be afraid to challenge your daughter or take her out of her comfort zone - it will only make her better in the long run.
If your daughter wants to play D-1 softball, I would suggest that you find a team that she can grow with, that plays the best competition, and that offers a strong "exposure" schedule. There are many college coaches looking at 14Us and the place to be is the 14U ASA A USA Nationals (not so much the regional Nationals). If you can locate a team whose ultimate goal is 16U ASA A USA Nationals and/or Premier, you are on the right track. If your daughter wants to play at the D2, D3, or NAIA where she plays and the team she plays on are probably less important.
As far as exposure tournaments are concerned, there are many, but Colorado (Louisville Slugger - Independence Day) is likely the best for D1 (in addition to the 16U ASA A USA Nationals). This tournament is by invitation only so you'll need to confirm that the team is invited. There are other exposure tournaments in Colorado, but they are not as good. Other popular midwest exposure tournaments include Elgin, IL; Chesterfield, MO; Murfreesboro, TN; etc. During the Summer there are NFCA Exposure Camps/Tournaments that are very good as well. Even if your daughter’s team is not going to some of these camps/tournaments, you can oftentimes go on your own. That is, some exposure tournaments offer individual players the opportunity to sign up as an extra player to be picked up by teams needing players.
In order to maximize your daughter's exposure, you should strongly consider taking her to winter/summer camps at different colleges/universities. Not only does this give you the opportunity to receive good instruction, you also get to visit the schools to determine if your daughter has an interest. It further provides your daughter a chance to show off her "skill set" in front of the coaches and it affords her the opportunity to interact with the coaches. If you can forge a bond early, it cannot hurt you. By way of example, even if the school doesn't need a cathcer there is a good chance that the coach knows another coach who needs one from your daughter's graduating class. After the camps were over we always waited around and my daughter talked to the coaches on her own and discussed what she could do to improve, what tournaments the coaches would attend to recruit, etc. There are also clinics out there that have multiple college instructors and these camps/clinics offer great opportunities to be seen as well. It all depends on what you can do from a scheduling and financial standpoint.
Just remember, you cannot rely on these camps/clinics as your daughter’s sole "exposure" to the coaches. The coaches are going to want to see your daughter play. This being said, the most important thing to do is to get with an organization that has a strong reputation of being competitive, that has solid coaching, and that has well-respected coaches who have strong relationships with college coaches.
One last word of advice would be to make sure your daughter plays two seasons of 16s (do not move to 18s too early). The second year of 16s is, by far, the key recruiting age for the bigger D1 programs.
There is a lot of work and there is no time like the present to get started.
Good Luck.