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by Iluvblue » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:33 pm

To all you nosey people, if you were not directly involved then SHUT UP ALREADY!!!! I’m pretty sure that both these parents are wonderful persons and are regretting what transpired on the field.


Are you kidding me? Did some man run through a group of people and strike 2 woman? I think that has been established.

Nothing else needs to be said. No amount of instigating by someone else can be blamed for some fool losing control and physically confronting and striking anyone at our kids games.

What needs to happen is some guidelines need to be in place. So when this happens, it isnt up to any coach to determining what happens. With his team, that is up to the coach, but in our area, i will be pushing hard for parents or coaches that do something like this to be banned for at least 1 year from attending any sanctioned event. By the way, the local authorities should be involved in this also, as this was a CRMINAL act.
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by It's me! » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:41 pm

hotwheels wrote:
It's me! wrote:People are now beginning to put their two cents in the story :roll: . He said this she said that, blah blah blah. No two people will see the same side with the same lens; we all view it through different lenses. I was not there, but I’m sad to have heard about this confrontation. Parents are just living through their children. Hey, softball is wonderful…. I love the game and live at the fields with my DD. However, enough is enough stop trying to pump up the situation or make another team look terrible on this website.

Hotwheels, if you were offended by comments that were made near a snack bar, why wouldn’t you have said, “Excuse me I find that comment racist etc”.


First off, how do you know I didn't? Were you there? Secondly, the answer to that is NO....I would not at that time or place with wife and 5 year old son in hand! That is where the mistake was made yesterday!!!

If you read my posts, I was only commenting on that aspect of the incident that I saw and replying to what was written....I can't legitimately make a comment on the field issues because I wasn't there....My main was to only imply that the atmosphere created was terrible.....

Read my post before you come on here looking to argue.....Let me know if I said something that wasn't true??? A couple of the posters who may or may not be on your team seem to be looking for a fight on this board....That's not helping your "We're innocent" card....

One of my posts said both teams are responsible for what happened....Not one....

By the way, I didn't say the post offended me either did I?? NO! I think I said it was a disgusting comment....



I had stated in my previous posting that I was not there. My comment to you was that you could have voiced your dislike about the comment in a polite manner without causing a confrontation. Perhaps the people who made the comment did not realize how disgusting it sounded (again I was not there). I am not trying to argue with you …
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by weekend4trvl » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:47 pm

Skarp wrote:
weekend4trvl wrote:
Skarp wrote:
Sftbll4ever wrote:Maybe not hitting back, but detaining him until the police arrive would have been better. Why weren't the police called. I would have been on that phone so quick he wouldn't even know what hit him.

If someone ran swinging into the women on our team, I would still be beating him when the cops showed up. Vigilante justice is way underrated these days.

That said, "did you see the little white girls crying" is pathetic and inexcusable. G...H...E...T...T...O!!

What...your going to lash him with your Rockports and Polo jacket.

Don't confuse where i am with where i came from my friend.

I didn't mean to discount your blue collar roots...lash him with the O'Reilly factor jacket my friend
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by Skarp » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:52 pm

weekend4trvl wrote:
Skarp wrote:
weekend4trvl wrote:
Skarp wrote:
Sftbll4ever wrote:Maybe not hitting back, but detaining him until the police arrive would have been better. Why weren't the police called. I would have been on that phone so quick he wouldn't even know what hit him.

If someone ran swinging into the women on our team, I would still be beating him when the cops showed up. Vigilante justice is way underrated these days.

That said, "did you see the little white girls crying" is pathetic and inexcusable. G...H...E...T...T...O!!

What...your going to lash him with your Rockports and Polo jacket.

Don't confuse where i am with where i came from my friend.

I didn't mean to discount your blue collar roots...lash him with the O'Reilly factor jacket my friend

That's more like it.
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by hotwheels » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:54 pm

It's me! wrote:
hotwheels wrote:
It's me! wrote:People are now beginning to put their two cents in the story :roll: . He said this she said that, blah blah blah. No two people will see the same side with the same lens; we all view it through different lenses. I was not there, but I’m sad to have heard about this confrontation. Parents are just living through their children. Hey, softball is wonderful…. I love the game and live at the fields with my DD. However, enough is enough stop trying to pump up the situation or make another team look terrible on this website.

Hotwheels, if you were offended by comments that were made near a snack bar, why wouldn’t you have said, “Excuse me I find that comment racist etc”.


First off, how do you know I didn't? Were you there? Secondly, the answer to that is NO....I would not at that time or place with wife and 5 year old son in hand! That is where the mistake was made yesterday!!!

If you read my posts, I was only commenting on that aspect of the incident that I saw and replying to what was written....I can't legitimately make a comment on the field issues because I wasn't there....My main was to only imply that the atmosphere created was terrible.....

Read my post before you come on here looking to argue.....Let me know if I said something that wasn't true??? A couple of the posters who may or may not be on your team seem to be looking for a fight on this board....That's not helping your "We're innocent" card....

One of my posts said both teams are responsible for what happened....Not one....

By the way, I didn't say the post offended me either did I?? NO! I think I said it was a disgusting comment....



I had stated in my previous posting that I was not there. My comment to you was that you could have voiced your dislike about the comment in a polite manner without causing a confrontation. Perhaps the people who made the comment did not realize how disgusting it sounded (again I was not there). I am not trying to argue with you …


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by cjs50 » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:55 pm

Charges are being checked into..The people involved are concerned about it causing more issues for the little girl whose father did the assault. The kid is their concern first. If the organization handles it, I would say that is fine.. But if they are going to throw blame on ours for what happened, then I say file charges! As soon as that guy made the decision to run across the field and hit someone, it was totally on him. Accept responsibility for your choices.
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by #16'sbiggestfan » Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:01 pm

#16'sbiggestfan wrote:any updates for 12u

i justwanted to know the results of the tourn. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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by upurbox » Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:11 pm

#16'sbiggestfan wrote:
#16'sbiggestfan wrote:any updates for 12u

i justwanted to know the results of the tourn. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


SEE WHAT YOU STARTED !!!.......lol :lol:
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by Trophy Hunter » Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:12 pm

To All Rebel Parents -

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer.

It intimidates and frightens many of the opposing players. And you know this.

You must. You can see it in the eyes of the opposing pitcher when she glances up at the phalanx of screaming adults in your bleachers.

You employ the chant to kick the other team when they're down.

It is unsportsmanlike at this age level.

It is the primary reason incidents such as the one Sunday always seem to involve your team.

It is the reason your team is the most reviled in SoCal Travel Ball.

It reflects poorly on your yourselves, your coaches, and most importantly, your daughters.

Parents don't respond well when their children are being frightened and intimidated by a group of adults.

The Rebel Chant is not a cheer, it is a provocation.

If you weren't aware before this, you are now.

In the future, please conduct yourselves accordingly. :idea: :idea: :idea:
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by #16'sbiggestfan » Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:14 pm

upurbox wrote:
#16'sbiggestfan wrote:
#16'sbiggestfan wrote:any updates for 12u

i justwanted to know the results of the tourn. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


SEE WHAT YOU STARTED !!!.......lol :lol:

its all my fault.IM SORRY. :( :( :(
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