hotwheels wrote:AM Softball wrote:hotwheels wrote:I hear what you are saying but you are acting like your team had no fault here.....Don't taunt the other team....That didn't help things.....You guys were both way out of line and both parties are to blame not just one team.......DON'T BLAME.....FIX!
Nobody taunted anyone except the Angels taunting the Rebels (1 Angel coach and 1 Angel parent). Bottom line. After the "taunting" got OUT OF CONTROL BY ONE ANGEL PARENT, the Rebel parents defended our kids by telling this drunk fool to shut up. This is when he rushed to our side trying to fight in the stands. He was held back, but he obviously wanted more when he ran at our crowd.
Hotwheels, I am not sure if you are a man or a woman but if you are a man, and some lunatic ran as fast as possible, swung and hit your daughters FEMALE coach, and another MOM on the team, would you have tried to stop him or would you try and discuss things calmly when he's swinging at your wife? Just curious.
Yes, you are absolutely correct but at that point it's too late. Of course I would a fighting madman at that point but I was mainly referring to prior to it getting to that point...I was responding to what someone who probably wasn't there either wrote but what they had said was that after the game there were Rebels parents yelling at this Angel parent from across the field. Then the Angel parent took off running at them....
My point was if they weren't yelling at him from across the would he have still charged over there??? Possibly but maybe not....I was only trying to say that in situations/conflicts like this it ALWAYS takes to two....Very, very rarely is it one sided....
I think the Rebels (If this is even true by the way) had the responsibility of not taunting him when the situation was hot to begin with.....The Angel parent has his own responsibilities that caused his part too....Him charging over is whole other crazy issue!
This is why rumors are rumors. There were TWO incidents. Cleanup admitted that a Rebel parent said "Suck what?" and it got heated. WHY DID HE SAY SUCK WHAT? Why that choice of words? Why, because the ANGEL parent said Suck Amie, F*** Amie, Flipping our stands off with both of his hands (IN FRONT OF GIRLS) and was doing pelvic thrusts. Cleanup, thanks. That's even MORE DEFENSE that we were spoken to FIRST in the stands. If the ANGEL parent wasn't screaming profanity in the stands, none of this would have happened.
THEN, everyone wet their separate ways. NOBODY SAID ANYTHING TO THIS MAN ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FIELD when the second incident occurred. NOTHING. NOT ONE WORD. If you played at HB complex, you know how far the fences are (200 feet). They were beyong the RF fence, and the Rebels were beyong the LF fence. Do you think anyone could have yelled that far and not ONE CA parent hear this?
It didn't happened. The guy stormed over for no reason and NOTHING was said to him to taunt him and hopefully, if you want to be real with everyone, the CA parents will admit they heard NOTHING at that point in this incident.