by DunninLA » Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:28 am
DonnieS -- You can't feed a rock. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make em drink... etc. etc.
My DD, much to my disappointment, chose not to go Travel 2nd yr. 12s. Stayed Rec. Again made the choice 1st yr. 14s. This fall, she had several invitations to join a mid/lower level A team for 2nd yr. 14s and again decided to stay Rec (Fallball, regular season, Allstars + High School JV). Actually the team most suited for her just finished 5-2 for 7th place at 14U Nationals in Georgia ... that would have been fun.
I can't get upset really. There are hundreds of things to occupy one's time, and the odds that Travel FP would be the thing that really rings her bell are pretty low. It's not like she's hanging out at the mall wasting time.... she has lots of friends, sort of the leader of her posse, surfs, rides her bike around, and is a leader on her AllStar Rec team.
But she really won't do a lot of drills, physical training and such necessary to evolve as an elite athlete outside the lines. She has nationally renowned hitting instructors willing to work with her. She's got the best training at her fingertips, but,,,, you have to WANT IT! YOu have to be upset when practice is cancelled. YOu have to think about it all the time!
I'm cool with that ultimately. It would have been nice to see where it could lead, but I know a person needs to pursue the things that get them excited, not the things that excite their parents! Perhaps in a year or so she'll get bored of Rec and mediocre High School ball and decide she wants to see how far she can go in the sport... but that's just not her thinking right now. It's not easy to see the whole picture when you're still 13, but she's very clear about what she likes! She would do it if I MADE her... but you have to pick your battles on the DO IT BECAUSE I SAY SO front, and sport certainly isn't an area to pull that card!
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DunninLA on Thu Aug 06, 2009 9:27 am, edited 1 time in total.